I'm writing this post mainly for myself. If for some crazy reason I decide to have another child in the future, I want to remind myself how difficult having a newborn around is.
Everyone has their favorite age range for kids. Before having my own, I LOVED little babies. After having my own, not so much. Around 4-6 months is when I really start enjoying them.
I'm not really sure why I dislike this stage so much, but I think a big part of it is the sleep factor. I LOVE to get my sleep. 9 hours a night for me is ideal. Not 2 hours. It's especially hard when you add in breastfeeding because no matter how you slice it, you have to get up to feed or pump so there is no reprieve unless one wants to be in a lot of pain.
I also like it when they are more interactive. I think that's why the 18 month-2 year range has been my absolute favorite stage so far. Although the older Owen gets, the more fun it is to take him out to do things. I love watching him explore something new. He gets so excited and looks at everything through fresh eyes. If we could get rid of the tantrums, it would be perfect!!! It's also nice (most times) that he can tell us what he wants and we don't have to guess like you do with a baby.
Perhaps some of my frustration with the newborn phase also comes out of having c-sections with each baby. It is frustrating not to be able to get out and run simple errands. The recovery is long and hard. I'm used to being out and about so just sitting around the house helpless drives me nuts.
Apparently these are all the same things I went through with Owen according to Brett, but my momnesia does not allow me to remember the bad parts...
Anyway, I love each of our kids to pieces, just ready to get through the next month or so with Maddi to the part where she sleeps more:)